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We’ve been on the island for almost three weeks! Our second and third weeks weren’t as romantic and dreamy as our first week. For one thing, Billy had to get registered and attend orientation and then start classes this past Monday (bleh). So, that really cut into our beach time. Let us take a moment of silence for those long-gone worry-free days.

 

The University's pool is right on the ocean. Just picture me here every day.

We finally received our loans (hallelujah) and then realized how much money we actually have to live on (Lord have mercy). We went from having a comfortable lifestyle to debating over whether we really need the bigger jug of vegetable oil—a difference of 3 whole dollars!  We were so spoiled, we never even budgeted our money. It always just seemed to work out for us. We’d go on a trip and spend a little too much, and so we’d cut back a little the next month and all would be well. Now, I get physically ill over spending $20 on something. Because once the money runs out—that’s it. Life is getting more real for us, and I’m kind of embarrassed that it’s taken us this long.

Oh and I got robbed for the first time! So, there's that. I bought an ice cream cone to break a $100 bill and also because I love ice cream, and the man proceeded to give me $11.50 in change. I reminded him that I gave him an $100 but he said no, you gave me a $20. He didn't even bother to double check. And he wasn't making eye contact. So, it got a little heated, and I tried to guilt him into telling the truth while I started crying because I was so sick that I wasn't in America where they don't take advantage of me unless I'm at the mechanic. Or at least when they do take advantage, they do it in a way where you won't notice. This was my first time venturing out on my own as Billy had started classes. And I felt like such a numb nuts that I had lost $100 (which is how much we're budgeted for each week of survival). And then I felt a little better after I ate my $92.50 ice cream cone. And then I remembered that it's not $93 US dollars, it's $93 EC (or eastern caribbean dollars) which totals up to about $35 in USD. Which still made me a little sick (remember how we're broke?) but also made me feel bad for the kid that he would go to all that trouble just to steal $35. Because, me being my father's daughter, I got security guards involved. Kind of dramatic. Now, everyone can get me in the Never, Have I Ever game by saying "Never have I ever paid $37 for an ice cream cone." 

We have also been looking for a car to buy. The problem is that it’s so expensive to ship cars over—you might as well just buy one over here. And the problem with buying one on the island is that all the cars just keep getting recycled through students over and over and over again. So, they are all shot to hell. I didn’t think I was high maintenance about cars, but boy was I wrong.  Who would have thought my biggest concerns in a car would go from worrying about the right color or if it had an auxiliary cord to whether the windows roll up and down or if the odometer works? And then we did some more budgeting and realized that we probably can’t afford a car, so…scooter it is.

Waiting for the bus to take us to church

Alright, enough whining about money. I still don’t really believe that we’re allowed to be handed money just for going to school. Is it some kind of trick? You’re telling me that even though I’m retired, I can still pay for things? And Billy gets to go every day to learn about stuff that he LOVES. Last night, he was showing me where he would do an epidural on me. On day 4 of med school! I wasn't sure whether to be happy that he was applying his knowledge or concerned that he was picturing doing it to me. Regardless, we live in such a fortunate time where loans and grants are easily obtained so that we can do what we have always wanted to. I know I won’t be feeling so grateful once we’re done and have to start paying them back…but for now, the idea is working for me, even if we did underestimate how much we needed.

We’ve made some friends here on the island. They have been oh-so-generous with giving us rides and inviting us to do fun things. We are probably more social here than we were in the States! Most of them have been here since last year, and so they probably hate us already with all of our mind-numbing questions about med school/loans/Grenada/etc. They have seriously been the best. But we are meeting more of the people in Billy’s term as they continue to show up on the island. A lot of them are in our branch, which we finally dragged our butts to two weeks ago. I was blown away by what an awesome group of people we have in our branch. Not only the students and their families—but also the locals! The church is relatively young here—the first missionaries came in 1985, so everyone is a convert. But, some of our friends said that even since they came last year, there has been so much growth. I am so pumped to learn from their faith and dedication.

We went to a new beach our first Saturday called La Sagesse. It has the best waves in Grenada. Still not surfing size, but we rented some boogie boards and kayaks and had a grand old time. We also were introduced to sand flies. You can’t feel them biting you, but all of a sudden, you notice that you are covered in hundreds of red polka dots. And then for the next week, you are making yourself bleed from scratching and clawing just to get some relief. I don’t even know how to describe how freaking good it feels to scratch those bites. I could try, but it might sound a little perverted—that’s how good it feels. Sand fly bites are 1,000,000,000 worse than mosquito bites. I’d take 100 mosquito bites over 2 sand fly bites any day of the week. Notice the perma-scratch marks in all of these photos.

We have found some yummy places to eat here, thanks to our new friends. But, there’s really not a huge foodie culture over here. I was disappointed that there isn’t more seafood. I could live off of seafood, and you can get it here, but it’s not very cheap. I’m thinking of opening a fish taco stand. It’s been a little hard because I’m the type of person that all of a sudden craves something really badly, and then I go and get it. I’m like those kids in the study with the marshmallows where they had to wait for 2 minutes to eat the marshmallow in front of them and then they’d get 2 marshmallows if they wait the full 2 minutes. I’d pop the whole thing in my mouth as soon as the timer started. For example, we finally got our Netflix figured out (thank you www.unblock-us.com) and we wanted to watch the Chipotle documentary, but I couldn’t even look at the Chipotle logo or else I was jonesing for a chicken burrito with guac. It hurt my heart. And it’s especially bad because I won’t be able to have one for 4 more months. 

We have not one, but two KFC’s on the island. Is that kind of racist? I haven’t decided yet. All I know is, I’m addicted to their mac and cheese. So, judge me. But I would easily trade one of them KFC’s for a McDonald’s. Anyway, I’m sure you’re all fascinated by my fast food addiction(s). But the point of all this was to tell you how Billy and I have already shed a few pounds. We realized that we haven’t been stuffed since we’ve been here. This from the man who EVERY night after dinner says “I’m never eating again”. And his wife isn’t much better on that front. So, since the food’s not that great, we’ve been normal people and only eating until we’re satisfied. It’s trippy. But great for our figures! Until we realized that we hadn’t stuffed our faces in a while and so cooked up a batch of Pillsbury cinnamon rolls at 10 PM and polished it off. We each ate 4. And we weren’t even high. The next night, we did the same thing with chocolate chip cookies. 

We attended Grenadian Carnival last week. They all take the day off for 2 days, which is rather problematic for two people trying to get situated, as everything was closed. We participated by going up to the capital city and strolling the streets, listening to local music, eating local food, and watching all the craziness that ensued. Our bus got searched for weapons before entering the city. What they do is basically have a rave walk from Grand Anse to St. George's harbor (3.5 miles). They all have glow sticks and have extravagant costumes, it was crazy to watch.

Pretty sure everyone in Grenada was there. And their dogs.

The rave walk from afar. Billy wouldn't let me go get my rave on. ;P

Billy with a local friend from the branch--Rimble.

The harbor is amazing at night. And day.

Our bus (more like vans) on the way there fit 19 passengers. And the driver. So bloody hot.

Oh and I wanted to show everyone our decked out new cell phones—don’t they remind you of middle school? Or your cooler middle school friends since I didn’t get a cell phone till I was 16? I have been having the hardest time texting on these bad boys. That predictive smart text is not really all that smart. But on the bright side, the batteries last like 4 days long!

I know you all were just dying to hear all the nitty gritty details of my life. So, you're welcome. And, as always, the offer for visitors to stay in our guest room is wide, wide open.

PS: this is the view from SGU's campus. Sorry, UVU, you put up a good fight.